Don’t be ashamed!
Just curious, how many into this were sexually abused as boys? They say 1 in 6 men are. And that boys who first experience orgasming was from being anally penetrated get fucked in the head and dream of being fucked in the ass the rest of their lives. But because they were not romantically attracted to men like normal homosexually, they fantasize about being fucked and dominated by women.
>>2529787Have to say not sexually abused, stable and healthy family relationshipsFirst love, sex and orgasm was with a female but I’m kinda into all this femdom stuff,had a girl pegging me the first time half a year ago, am 30 now….all my gf and one night stands are really good looking women, objectively rated 7,8,9 out of 10. I have absolutely no big problem in finding a girl but picky af and reject more of them than I end up in bed with but femdom and pegging is my weak spot don’t know why, it’s just a sexual thing inside the bedroom. In my worklife and outside the bedroom I can take pretty much every role I want, from totally dominating at negotiations to assisting normal intelligent people with their work
>>2529597How is men literally getting fucked in the ass allowed on /hc/ but I get banned for a tranny thread? Fucking faggot mods trying to hide in the closet
>>2529984>but I’m kinda into all this femdom stuffWhat is the relationship with your mother like? What relationship did your parents have?
y'all fags into this shit or is it too gay for you? >>2529992
>>2529990both living and married together ever since can’t wish for a better mother, caring about me, doesn’t intervene in my relationships and wishes that I find someone to stay with and build a happy family… doesn’t judge me for short term relationships and dumping or rejecting them if I think it’s not the right fit
You can usually tell in amateur vids the men that have been sexually abused vs those that just like prostate stimulation.The abused men usually are the ones being fucked with larger than life dildos, larger than any man. Mentally this is comforting to them because no “man” can ever hurt them again like they were hurt when the abuse started.It also helps the wife because she knows that no gay top would want a man that had been “ruined” by being routinely fucked with a coke can or larger diameter dildo. In her mind she feels that only she can satisfy her husband.
Abused men in videos will frequentally be wearing women’s stockings or panties. These men don’t want to be women. They need to be humiliated. When a man’s first sexual experience and orgasms occur at the same time as humiliation and pain the brain permantly associates humiliation and pain with please.A man whose first orgasm occurs in association with pain and humiliation will forever feel pain and humiliation as pleasure.Therapists explain to the wifes of men who were sexually abused that is normal and that abused men may ask them to “make them” wear panties, women’s stockings, wear chastity cages, bite or pinch their nipples, eat their own cum, fantasize about their wife’s cuckolding them, etc.
The men can’t help this. There is no cure, no pill, no therapy that will stop abused men from reliving their abuse in their dreams. They wake up having cum on themselves or on the verge of cumming, and inevitably masturbate so they can go back to sleep, ashamed that the abuse felt good and yes forced massage of the prostate feels good and results in orgasms much more intense than men get from masturbating or PIV sex. And of course this makes the man even more ashamed.Many men can’t live with the shame and end up killing themselves. It’s the reason dominatrixes are legal. It gives men a way to experience what happened to them, the pleasure, pain, and humiliation in a safe environment where they are in control and can make it stop with a safe word. This gives the men alternative memories of what they experienced instead of having to masturbate to the memories of having no control during the abuse.
Many men who were abused never tell anyone. Some tell their wife’s after 20-30 years when sex is not so important. The men fear their wife’s won’t see them as “real” men if they tell them that they were abused and it felt good, and they have been fantasizing about their wife’s dominating them the whole time they have been married.Some of the men are never able to become erect again after telling their wives. They are so ashamed they can’t imagine their wife’s would ever want to be submissive to them again.Some of the wife’s understand and some don’t. Those that do will typically reverse roles in the bedroom and begin fucking their husbands and after their husband cums the wife’s will masturbate with a vibrator while their husband sucks their toes, licks their ass, etc.
Had a ulcer when 15. Mom took me to doctor. Pretty nurse gives me barium enema from huge nozzle. I was hooked.Picrel, recent prostate massage.
>>2530167My AMP pushed all my buttons
>>2530198>>2530198she can fuck me... moar
Your wife still loves you but once you told her you need to be fucked in the ass you knew that she would never see you as a man again. Just tell her you’ll understand if she occasionally needs to be fucked by real man.
You need to understand that once your wife starts fucking you it means you will never fuck her again. It will be easier if you ask her to remind you of this when she’s fucking you. If she’s a good wife she will tell you she still loves you, just not in that way.
Also, asking her to ruin your ass so that you never have to worry about a man being able to hurt again like your were hurt will make living with what happened easier and it will make it easier for you wife once she knows no man will take you from here. You will need to get used to wearing a plug all time to avoid leakage but after a flew weeks you won’t even notice it.
>>2529626nice
>>2530369very nice
Men that survive often wait until their late 50s or early 60s before they finally tell their wives but some like me get careless and it comes out earlier. The wife somehow finds out the husband has been watching femdom porn, visiting a dominatrix, the husband talks in his sleep when he’s reliving being fucked in his sleep or while he imagines being fucked by his wife, or like in my case finds the husbands dildo. My wife said she knew right away I wasn’t gay because the dildo was too big for me to have been fantasizing about being fucked by a man. I admitted that I had been fantasizing that she had a cock.
I was never able to get hard to fuck her again after that. I told her I would understand if she needed to be fucked by a real men. So far, she’s been happy with just masturbating while fantasizing about cuckolding me. She “makes” me tell her to “take his cock” when she gets close to cumming.
The hardest part of knowing she’s masturbating while fantasizing another man is fucking her is when she tells me he’s getting ready to cum and asks me if I want him to cum in her and make her pregnant or pull out and cum in my mouth and makes me tell her my mouth.Then as she’s cumming she tells me it’s ok baby. Eat your cum for me while you imagine him cumming in your mouth. and then makes me lick my own cum out of my hand.
Somehow my wife knows this makes it easier for me to deal with the memories of what happened to me,
A filthy sluts tongue is best for massage
Where are our femdom lovers. Half the threads are big black cock shit but you don’t like femdom? Wtf?.
Can you imagine how many times you would have to be fucked with larger and larger dildos to be able to take this cock? It would take years! And you know this man’s wife knows no other man could ever please her husband. Her husband totally relies on her to be able to cum. Her husbands ass is totally ruined. He has to wear a softball sized buttplug except,when he is being fucked or needs to do to the bathroom.
>1 in 6 need itQrd? Is my desire for pegging genetic?
>>2530202hot
DESU, I think the core of this is performance anxiety.Women get anxious from having to be careful about men all the time, so they have rape fantasies where a strong man just takes them and they have no agency.Men get anxious from pressure to perform, so they develop fantasies where they are passive and have no agency.ED? No skills? Tired? No problem, you're in chastity, being pegged anyways.That's why it correlates with all the "permanent role change" fantasies, where you will "NEVER" have to live as a man again.People report more of these fantasies in stressful and anxious times in their life.For some, the first trigger was abuse.But for others, maybe it was just performance anxiety from normal life. It's tough. People look for escapes, naturally.BTW, don't get too hooked on escapism. It doesn't work in reality.
>>2530376My wife pegged me on our 3rd date. We've fucked all sorts of ways after that. 22 years later, we're still fucking, still pegging. You're still full of shit.
>>2532841My life is pretty stress free, I just have a very sensitive butt so it feels good to stick things in it!
>>2530161I need a Woman to do this to me!!
>>2530198I bet she makes him watch her ride her Bulls cock!
>>2529625>>2530152I love Skin Diamond as a femdom queen, she turned me into a submissive boy.
>>2531423lol I know that guy
>>2530167Got more? Or TG perhaps?
>>2534609What's he like?
>>2529984The stories on x about skinwalkers are more believable than this
>>2529597My cock is dead.I'm not even getting a dicktwitch out of my usual faire. Normally seeing men being degraded and anally dominated by women brings a smile to my face and a twinkle to my eye, but my dick just ain't having it.Looks like I've got to either start snorting viagra or find jesus.
>>2543465I want you to WANT to fuck me up the ass.
>>2534609his gf is hot.hes a lucky guy.
>>2529626Black. No
>>2529597Why can't you just admit that you like fucking me up the ass? Why can't you just act like you are enjoying yourself?
>>2529597I'm sorry, I'm I fucking boring you? Is me wearing stocking and high heels and a chastity cage not enough for you to get off? Is it too much to ask for a little enthusiasm and maybe a smile now and again? You look like you're bored out of your mind and thinking about having lunch later, i swear I catch you checking your watch.
>>2529597You ever think that maybe if your not into fucking guys in the ass and dressing them up like sexy girls and doing all sorts of other kinky shit maybe you could do something else for a living? Am i fucking boring you?
I swear to fucking Christ girls who do this shit are like the flintstones, "Eh, its a living!"
>>2529600She's training him to take her Bull's cock!
>>2530187What's her name?
>>2540865This is pasta Anon
>>2532841Trauma, performance anxiety, stress, real life burdens and so on are a big motivator to seek disassociation/escape.The full-time thing is a meme, but scheduled role-change acts as a pre-emptive pressure release valve. You get 'permission' to explore and express yourself through a different persona, and you can leave it in that sandbox until next time. The kind of role reversal that is very vulgar and over the top is rooted from stress or trauma expressing itself through porn induced hypersexuality. It's kind of scary and sad to observe people re-enacting things that clearly happened in their past.
>>25295971 in 6? where did you get that?it's definitely more. like 1 in 3 at least
It's amazing when you read the comments in these threads they always turn out gayer than the dudes that just bang trannies. Women were never meant to be dominant and the men in these threads into it are gay as fuck.
>>2555388Yeah getting dominated by a woman is definitely gayer than fucking another dude.Fucking lmao.
>>2529597Bullshit. Manipulation/molestation puts that bullshit in people. It's a lie spread by cowards. Quarantine yourself or I will kill you.
>>2529787I am into this and genuinely think I must have been abused as a kid. Likely at daycare. I have zero memory at all that would make me think that, just a gut feeling.
>>2529787I have never been abused. Had a perfect childhood. Also, to be fair, I am not into bondage nor submission, but I let my wife finger me and she have used a dildo on me quite a few times (not pegging).Different people. Different backgrounds.
>>2529597Fuck yeahBest thing I ever did was spill the beans to my gf/now wife about my anal activities.
How to convince my wife to peg me without her secretly loathing me after?
>>2561932You cannot.Therein lies the conundrum. Pegging is the *MOST ENJOYABLE WAY TO HAVE SEX* for men. This is just the truth. God put the male g spot in his ass as a type of cruel joke. Most women WILL be willing to do it. But respect for you will wane and the relationship will not last more than a few months after.Relationships are nearly 100% built upon a woman's respect for a man and if that respect is not kept and maintained, things will quickly fall apart.So you have a choice to make, do you want to have the best sex you can while destroying your relationship or do you want to keep your relationship and her respect and NOT have the best sex?Pegging is my favorite way to have sex, but I'm getting older so I want more permanent relationships. I think I'm done with enjoying pegging.If I could have both pegging and a permanent healhty relationship (with a woman), that's what I'd prefer, but that's never how it works.The same applies to cucking or any style of sex that causes her to view you as an "inferior".
>>2561933I travel a few times a month to the same large US cities, probably twice a year I get a smoking hot escort and some cocaine and spend the tight getting my asshole wrecked. My wife is too hot to take chances on letting her be anything but a submissive.
>>2560549see the passion in her face sells it in a way the youngs who can't fuck don't get yet or at all.
>>2561933THERE ARE NO NUANCES OR IN BETWEENS you don't know me but IM A SEGS SCIENTIST WITH ABSOLUTES READY TO DISEPENSE THEM ON HC and people will believe itfugginloltf YOU WILL BE VISITED BY THREE SPIRITS OF THE PROSTATE THIS NIGHT~~~~~OOOOOOOOHHHHHJJJ
where can one find fuul pegging or CFNM vids?
>>2562574>where can one find fuul pegging or CFNM vids?femdompire, kink.com -> divine bitches
>>2560549>PLS NOOOO I'LL DO THE DISHES NEXT TIME I SWEAR OWEEEE
>>2563182This takes me out of femdom/pegging porn every time. Pegging feels way too good for me to ever believe it could be a punishment. If anything, it's a reward.
>>2529787Wrong, interesting theory but totally incorrect
>>2530150Big dildos just also objectively feel betterIts not that deep, pun intended
>>2543850Why's this even an issue, basically everyone owns a dishwasher now
>>2563182Yeah if that was the outcome I'd never do dishes
>>2555728Yes because women lose respect for guys who get pegged even over actual faggots. At least faggots aren't in the closet about who they are. When not even women respect you then you will be incredibly gay to everyone in society, including even some pets and animals will look down on you too.
>>2529787Never abused, like getting pegged. I have a really sensitive butt.
>>2529787Nah it just feels really good
>>2529787Emotionally abused by a quick to anger father, but it was never sexual abuse
>>2565843Insects lose all respect for you, and even plants will point their fingers and laugh at your diminished self as you mince by exuding your brown watery trail.
>>2568294You've never had an analgasm and it shows
>>2529787This is a 100% true and anyone that disagrees is doing so because they are gay
>>2570352You're just outright wrong
>>2529787>normal homosexual>normal>homosexualkek! Fags and peg fags are not normal. Enjoy your pretend gay sex faggots
>>2573359You know you want it
>>2529787not sure if i got raped, don't want to go to therapy and unlock some mr. robot shit, i'm goodjust like the idea of being dominated by a woman desu
>>2563217The fuck is with those arms lmaoDude’s blood vessels are fucked harder than his asshole>>2564771There are many kinds of dishes or cutlery that you wouldn’t want to put in a dishwasher. The fact that you don’t know this indicates you’re either poor, and everything you own is disposable shit, or you’re still a child who never grew up
>>2574360Is called low body fat and being vascularNothing weird
>>2575140Stfu fagfrog
>>2529597More like 1 in 3
>>25843001 in 1, let's be real feminism should be about having all women become dominant and peg men into submission
>>2585209Facts
+56991379237enjoy
>>2585571???
>>2569685nice!!!
>>2529787Physically abusive childhood but not sexually
>>2529787Never abused. Discovered my asshole as a young teen, while outright wanting to explore my body. For a time I willingly tried to play with different parts of me and see what got me off. Tried playing with my piss and shit too. Not nearly as fun. Butt stuff is the only thing that stuck from that period.
>>2529787Had anal sex with my friend at 6/7 years old
>>2531385It’s because they hate women. The BBC stuff gets them off because it degrades the women and themselves both
>>2529787I had an exemplary infancy and never experienced any degenerate shit. But I like when my wife puts two fingers in my ass from time to time. Yes, I've also experimented with dildos.
>>2531385There's another thread called "Femdom thread" which has a more obvious title than "1 in 6 need it"
>>2585209If only they would hurry up and do so
>>2596488Seconded
>>2585209hurry up and kill yourself
>>2593691I do hate women
>>2598097Show me how you do it first I'm a visual learner
Not ashamed https://grok.com/share/c2hhcmQtMw_86a6b8fd-0c4d-45e2-a5d0-fe997744e39f
>>2529787My older cousin forced me to jerk him off when I was like 7. He was 13. I'm super into pegging but I also want to be fucked by men so.....I dunno.
>>2604645thats hot now stop blaming your cousin you were asking for it
>>2604647Nah what was hot was when my mom sent me to stay with those cousins for a week in the summer when I was 13. Guess whose room i stayed in at night? Taught me how to give blow jobs and took my virginity.
>>2532843Some folks need to tough a titty. Getting pegged is incredible. Makes her wet like a slip in slide.
>>2592174Same here and I do not understand why so many act like butt stuff means you been abused.
>>2604672Terminally online incels.
>>2604672Because people are stupid and believe stupid things.
>>2529597>3 in 5 men fantasize about it>1 in 6 have done it with a partnerI just need my "pipes cleaned" maybe 1-2 times a month. Doesn't have to be some kind of event, or weird, or any more special than oral sex. I just want to feel vulnerable and safe with a girl without worry of judgment or her using this against me in a fight later.
>>2592174>>2604672Bringing "abuse" into this discussion is just sneed from incels and /pol/cels.My story is similar to first anon's.>middle school>get bored during a home bath, start playing with my butt>never thought of using anything phallic, but trying to put more than one finger at a time was fun>fast forward to adulthood>tried using toys solo - lots of prep/cleanup and the result isn't much better>tried getting topped by a tranny - fun, but I want kids and building a relationship with a tranny is not appealingNow looking for my qtpi who's open-minded about pegging me without having gone through an arthoe phase first.
>>2561932Why is it that every pegging thread we get one or more retards asking this?>convinceIt's IMPOSSIBLE to negotiate attraction and it's impossible to get someone interested in your fetish with "facts and logic" alone. The mere fact that you phrase the question this way indicates that you are a fucking idiot.Are you doing anything remotely kinky/naughty now? Have you (or she) introduced anything kinky into the bedroom recently? Is this an ongoing process or has your sex life pretty much ossified over the years?Pegging is something you have to work up to even though it's very easy for a girl to do as long as she's confident she won't see shitdick. What you're really navigating are her preconceptions of both masculinity and of you.
>>2529599This is modern marriage
>>2605518Honestly, I wish.
>>2605457Finally, a logical comment.If you've always had vanilla sex, you can't suddenly say, "Fuck me with a strap-on, honey."
>>2552462hi_its_hattie
If you were abused as a kid and were forced to cum from being fucked in the ass practically every day for months or years, and we’re told you were gay because it felt good, it’s hard to ever get over the self doubt that maybe you are gay.The first time my wife made me cum from pegging me, I realized that it hadn’t felt good because it was guy doing it. That was the first time I was able to accept I wasn’t gay.
>>2554813>>2554814>>2554815>>2554816Hot!
Why dont any healthcare plans have a pegging program for the 1 in 6? Like the thread title says, I NEED it, I get incredibly angry and anxious and nervous and paniced if I dont get fucked for a long time. Why arent there licensed pegging nurses for every jurisdiction? Imagine how many violent crimes would have never happened if pegging was a human right that the state legally needed to provide us.
Caged and peggend by nurses.Then by your wife.Happy marriage.
>>2561932I had it easy, I caught my wife looking at pegging porn.
>>2614835Yo is that my man big Jeff?
>>2614839Who is this Jeff?
Why not bring a friend?
My wife and I do this sometimes.
The necktie makes this one funny to me.
>>2530160What kind of stupid shit is this? Do you tell yourself that your victims enjoyed it? You need to die predator.
>>2615762>>2530160Sure, whatever. Some of us just like what we like because it feels good and don't think and deeper than that.
I found some real talent.
>>2616280>>2617458>>2623693>dildo is blackIt's over. Whatever was left is gone.
>>2531409Someone’s fantasy.
>>2530161Source??
My wife keeps me in a cock cage and fucks me in the ass at least once a week. I don’t get to penetrate her at all. She uses a fuck machine while I lick her clit and that’s pretty much our sex. She will only let me cum with the vibrator if my ass is getting fucked. Usually tied up or strapped down to our bondage table with electrodes on my balls and ass. I honestly miss sex sometimes but I wouldn’t trade it for what I have now. She wants to have me pierced and permanently locked, but she doesn’t like that I’d have to be unlocked for a while to heal. I’m sure it’s going to happen soon though. Careful what you wish for gents, you might get it.>>2625709
>>2624828GIWTWM
>>2529990ITs more of a if i am so down bad for someone that i want to fuck them i feel kinda unwanted if they dont want too as well
>>2561933biggest bs ever have a good relationship and be emotioanlly mature.If youre scared that asking to try somethign new is endangering that thats not related to the sexual side of things.But emotional retardation
>>2604672>>2604677>>2604681>>2605454because as can be clearly seen in this thread a lot men who are into femdom actually hate themselves or got some weird metnal shit going on.The majority of people cope with trauma (if they dont face it) by turning into something pleasurable (subconciously).While the wound still persists its now perceived as pleasurable.So for many its actually a sign of trauma / mental problems just not for all.
>>2605457I mean closer but still not right.My gf actually started being into peggign before we were together because she fantasized about me.Give me enough LSD and Time and i can gurantee you i can make almsot anyone attracted to anything.The point being what you really need is good communication (which none of the people on here seem to have hence they are asking such a deeply personal question in such a naive way)And her as well as my kinks evolved along the way.But you cant force someone into it.Taste evolve with your emotional state.Most people are simply scared or stuck in their role.Women that fear their men being submissive or weak are really just insecure in their own roles and dependent.If you have a partner that you're deeply emotioanlly connected in they wont mind doing almost anything for you.hence the answer is having a good realtionship and emotional intimacy will get you fetish X.Because thats how you really get your emotional needs met with our coercion, which is for low conciousness low EQ/IQ NPCs.Pray you're not one of them.Also in case you are retareded try hypnosis that shit works wonders but has to be practice like any other skill (10% are hyper respionders while 10% almost dont respond 80% being normal responders)
>>2629040Anon you write all good shit, but then start talking about using LSD and hypnosis to get what you want? Both of those would be coercion because the context implies that the person did NOT want to do something you are going to "make" them attracted to.wtf, dude
>>2533022For mee basically this =D
>>2624052Hottest color it can be
>>2632345It doesn't have to be complicated. You can just like something.
>>2529787Not abused. My first gf was a couple of years older than and was very kinky, she was my first, but I wasn't hers. She was bi and really liked eating ass, so after insisting enough times I finally gave in and let her do it. She'd rim me while stroking me until I came, and it honestly was a little weird at first but it felt really good. Eventually she started using her toys on me and I agreed to let her peg me, that's when I found out how much better and stronger prostate orgasms felt. I don't think its gay as long as you're doing it with a woman, I couldn't imagine doing it any other way.
>>2633131The one thing my wife won't do is lick my hole. I can't complain though. Other than that she is perfect.
>>2633151It’s the same with my wife. She pegs me, but she doesn't rim me.That works for me. I can't complain.
