I thought I wouldn't post this but I must. So long story short I went to this gothic afternoony (you know that thing) party, the co-organizer is a gothic alternative chick I like very much. I followed the previous advice I asked here, I put effort into my goth attire:- Comfort dance shoes for plenty movement and techno dance mini jumps.- Halloween orange thighs highs- Traditional Ukrainen embroidery inspired shirt (because Slava Ukraine) .- Gothic Scholar Lolita skirt. No miniskirt = Alt rnative but Law-abiding citizen- Fishnets, an emblem of alternative and bold yet suggestive outcast souls (hide and not).- Dog collar, kinky IYKYKbut this wasn't successful, she saw me some times and looked away, she avoided the place I was at. It was my first time there I found myself at home, they were inclusive and I took turns at the ballooj throws and habdfun. I'm not sure. maybe she shy or nervous or whatever. I can handle rejection and avoidance tho, I respect women.Tldr give attire/styleadvice. I had fun so I plan to go to these events.
Beautiful embroidery-like printed t-shirt detail
>>18786246>techno dance mini jumpsWe need to discuss this
>>18786304Jumpstyle and Freestyle. Im thin and slender so I have the agility that modern urban dance requires
>>18786246Think about this from the other party's perspective. You show up prancing about in a skirt and tights with fanciful little half-jumps. And you expect this person to respect you? To treat you as an equal? You appear to be suffering from arrested development. Put on some pants.
>>18786246this comes off as a queer-coded imho. if i saw you in public, i'd think you're trans or nonbinary which probably isn't what you're going for.just dress like a vampire or layer some black clothes with a mix of leather and metal studs
>>18786246holy shit I didnt think I'd see another update from you, its cool that your still developing a look.My advise would be to add some more textures and visual interest. Simplest addition would be some bracelets, wouldnt have to be those huge studded ones just some beads to add detail without being too impractical. I would also recommend you start looking into a leather kilt. Its seems to me that at this point you are quite set on this silhouette, but I feel that your still missing that one standout piece. While a leather kilt would be somewhat costly its also striking enough to work as a conversation starter, your goal is to get a girls attention and something like that wouldnt be out of place at a goth club. Another plus is that it would allow you to wear belts with your outfits, which as of now is another missed opportunity.
>>18786246you failed with the proportions, the most basic thing of all
>>18786246Whatever you do keep posting, you are doing an awesome job
>>18786246This is truly abysmal. You look like an in invader zim girl from 20 years ago. If you're going to dress spooky then either dress up more formally or dress down more thoroughly crusty. This hot topic shit looks fucking retarded. It's a confused bunch of shit. You have the worst aesthetic sense I have seen in a long long time
>>18786246What in the tranny-aackkk-hell were you thinking, boy? You look like a gay retarded spastic.
>>18786246Also why the fuck would you embroider a fucking tee shirt. That shit would look fine in the middle of the back of a jacket or running down each shoulder but as is it just looks cheap and stupid
wtf
>>18786370I'm glad you remember me. I still go to gothic parties every once in a while, but the lady doesn't notice me. My Oscura Pipistrella!
>>18786246You look very much like a baby queer trying to get into the scene.Goth fashion is primarily about texture and layering. Masculine looks can get away with less, but realistically you want something more formal and vampiresque.Look to actual goth musicians in the 80s. Pete Murphy, Andrew Eldritch, Nick Cave etc. These are your blueprint. If you do want something more feminine with skirts, go look at Rozz Williams.And don't dance jumpstyle. Check out industrial dancing or goth dancing, there's plenty of stuff online.
Jesus Christ. Sorry but you look like shit the proportions make you look so frumpy and what the hells on your legs? Either do pants or commit to a long skirt because this half and half thing looks stupid
>>18786246>I respect women Why did you have to add this part?
>>18786246>Traditional Ukrainen embroidery inspired shirt (because Slava Ukraine)lmfao
Commit to the goth and get a pair of new rock boots, or platform doc martens. You can find them cheap on depop or eBay or whatever. This will flatter the silhouette on the bottom. For the top I’d suggest a distressed long sleeve (thrift + DIY) or even a chunky vest. Keep it up, it’ll click when you keep experimenting.
>>18786593Answer this.
-your shoes make your entire fit look ass, like you stole it from your sister's closet to make fun of her, add texture, add leather, wear some platform boots or shit i dont fucking know. -let your hair down to not look like you just got off work, and if you're feeling extra adventurous mess it up a bit to give it that true gothic look, you've got long hair, take advantage of it-your entire fit looks like you got it on aliexpress for ten bucks, the skirt looks extremely cheap but it could be saved by being longer, like ankle length. are you trying to look like a highschool anime girl or are you trying to look gothic, anon?- also why'd you put orange stockings on,, if you wanted to mix in between styles maybe just wait until you're more experienced with at least one style before mixing everything up together, now you just look like a mess..-why's your choker so loose, looking for someone to pull it??? (and again, loose your hair, that choker with a bun just makes YOU look like a bum)-also as a little bonus you could paint your nails black if you'd like
>>18786452let me suck your dick or pussy please be more active on this board we need people like you
>>18786246looks interesting. I like the Ukrainian embroidery.
>>18786593Because it's obviously a shit post. Look at the file names. OP saw these pics on Reddit and wrote up the gay fanfic above for kek points.
>>18786852because memes are fun google "respecting women"
I recommend dressing like a 17th century ghost highwayman
>>18786873its so cool I wish they were cheap.so that I could wear them
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