>mother in law has a stroke and is hospitalised>Wife and me sort out her affairs because father in law is useless>turns out he gave her money for private health insurance and she never paid the insurance, just took the money>turns out they bought property in the third world shithole they're from in relatives name>turns out the relatives scammed them or whatever and there were lawsuits over the properties>turns out they have unpaid lawyer fees from these lawsuits>turns out they still owe money for these properties>turns out they haven't paid their maintenance fees in years for some shitty "investment" apartments they can't rent out over there too>turns out my mother in law secretly had multiple credit cards with massive debt>turns out she illegally took money out of her government pension accounts>turns out father in law has been sending all his money back to his third world shithole country for decades and has nothing to show for it tooI'm about to have a fucking heart attack
>>62822785And how exactly is this your problem?
Why did you marry a thirdie
>>62822792This. That is not your problem.
Does any of this have to do with Nicaragua? I'd be real funny if it did.
>>62822785>wife's family have all been scamming each other for decades>somehow doesn't clock wife is one of them
>>62822785>>62822785italy
>>62822785Did you marry a jeet?
>>62822900>>62822934my bet is vietnam
>>62822934Definitely thailand
>>62822785fuck the rice pay the price
>>62822785
>>62822785burn the coal pay the toll
>>62822785You'd better have your wealth in places your wife can't touch it. Either she's running the same scam on you, or her relatives will pressure her to clean up their mess.
>>62823393This
>>62822785its ur mother in law not your own motherwho cares lol
>>62822785Migrant family drama is unrivaledYou have people scamming each other, retarded family overseas relying remittances, green card marriages falling apart, people refusing to speak to each other for years over the pettiest shit, it's insane
Really starting to understand why they call it the "gift" of singleness
>>62822785>>62822810>what is inheritance>what is debt passed on to the familyGrow a brain.
>>62822785Why did you marry an immigrant Kek. You retard. You go on 4chan too and you married an immigrant how can you be so retarded. You are a retard. My baby mamas dad has 15 properties.
>>62823608>debt passed on to the familythird world problems
My iranian father-in-law got scammed big time by some of his siblings. Their dad owned a bunch of valuable seaside properties in northern Iran and he kicked the bucket a few years ago.>they couldn't find the deeds>the whole inheritance process stalls>father-in-law drives up there to take a look at the properties>some random guy lives at one of them>apparently bought the house cash from someone>turns out a his siblings (already filthy rich by iranian standards) sold the house even before the dad died without anyone knowing>still can't find any deeds>allegedly the money disappeared too>process is still stalled and father-in-law hasn't received a dime>unlikely that anything will ever get resolvedFrom what I understand this kind of shit is very common. I think it's mainly because people can get away with it, due to the authorities being unable to keep track of anything.
>>62823554I'm going to tell you right now. The ideal life is something like just yourself and your kid or 2. That's it.
>>62823667Why would ANYONE want to live with a female?Married cucks are so pathetic.
You thought you were getting a loyal, loving, never whoring around woman with no strings attached?
Third worlder. Grim.
gotta be phillipines
>>62823608>inheritanceNot getting any. Welcome to the club>debt passed on to the familyAdult children in the US are generally not liable for their parents' debts. When a parent dies, their debts are paid out of their estate during probate using their remaining assets, not from the child's personal bank accounts or money.
>Just marry a non woman
>>62822785>passport bro discovers poor people are bad with moneyok but what does this have to do with literature
>>62822785This is going to be you in 30 years retard, good move. Your thirdie wife is going to have more allegiance with people who look like her than some foreigner that's been paying for all her shit.>I've been stressing out some nons affairsDon't they have a son to deal with this?
Good news is, if you are in America you cannot be forced to take a negative total value inheritance. You can let the creditors fight over the scraps and walk away from the mess. More common than you'd think.
>>62825001He should get rid of the wife too; definitely negative value.
>>62822785>1pbtidWe've been had gents
First of all, fuck off guys. My wife was born here and is financially literate, she hates this shit mentality as much as me. Second of all, we're not going to fucking clean up their mess, fuck that. We found more debt. That dumb bitch literally took out loans to send remittances to the Philippines. WTF.But it looks like her government pension account will be enough to cover her debt. It's been decided that we will dissolve the pension account to pay off all this shit and then she will have a retirement living of the bare minimum social welfare she's elligible for. Dumb bitch, I swear. My father in law is livid, he worked super hard is whole life, and even though he didn't fucking invest for his retirement properly either at least he has some savings and a pension. He'll have to support her because we sure as shit aren't going to do it.
>>62822807This hahaha, deserved. Race traitor.
>>62825684So you did go for some tight pinay, lol. But if she agrees with not helping this insanity, it's not your problem and she's sound.
>>62825710I mean look man, we won't abandon her sick mom in the hospital. We'll sort out all the paperwork and shit, especially with getting early access to her pension account to pay her debt. And then my wife's brother will handle her finances from now on and just give her pocket money. But no, my wife absolutely refuses to pay for their shit. I DID pay half of my mother in law's sister's flight here though, but I'm playing the long game there because my wife is pregnant and we're planning to have the auntie around as much as possible in the future to help take care of the kid so we don't have to pay for a nanny which is super expensive here.
play normie games, win normie prizes
>>62825684>>62825726Just do what you can and be supportive but don't provide any financial support. That's their problem not your or your wife.
>>62822807/thread
>>62822785>All races are equal they saidThis is the average lifestyle of non whites. They scam, they produce nothing good, they destroy, they ruin everything then they will come to leech of any functionnal society provided leftists traitors open the gate for them.By the way if op is white and married a non white that is deserved. This will be the future of your bloodline, forever, since genetics cano't be reasoned against
>>62825800I know plenty of trashy white people who have made just as many bad financial decisions lol.
>>62825805Before diversity, marrying a lower class person was viewed with contempt.
>>62825814Okay boomer
>>62825684You married a coconut monkey
this is why even in the most dire straights i couldnt imagine myself marrying into this 4’9 dysgenic subspecies. gl bro. im sure all the yt wimmin are seething.
>>62825908>Tfw no 4'9 Filipina to mercilessly fuck God imagine what I can do to a little woman like that.
>>62823608>>what is debt passed on to the familyDepends on the country I guess, but usually you can refuse an inheritance.
>>62825684>PhilippinesLmao gottem
>>62825726>I'm playing the long game there because my wife is pregnant Bro just bail out and eat the child support payments, I have literally never seen that arrangement succeed.
>>62822785theyre basically biz level investorsalso go back
>>62825684Why the fuck does some phlip whore have a US gov pension fuck this gay ass faggot country
>>62825684>married a monkey >somehow shocked when her family are monkeys with moneyI have never known a thirdie who has a good grasp on personal finance. I suppose they wouldn't be over here if they did
>>62825684This nigga married a filipina
>>62823608Even if you have well meaning parents most of the economy will shift to boomer/gen x wealth and rent extraction or else collapse leaving them penniless. Unless you get a sizable payout today the odds of anyone seeing anything will only diminish, excess wealth will be consumed for survival.
>>62825684Good luck anon, I'd trade all my wealth today for a mutt 2nd gen immigrant gf to hug again even though I know it will be a ruse. If retardation skipped a generation then you are truly blessed and taking care of ones elders as you did no matter how retarded will be smiled on by non-archon Gods.
>>62822807Came here to post this. Marrying a third worlder is like marrying a low class supermarket cashier, but with 10x the baggage.
>>62825805>the far end of the bell curve existsthanks, fag
>>62825684HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA AND YOU ACTUALLY mARRIED?? X D
Holy shwt I'm even going back to PH this year to fuck around but you should never marry one of those abominations...it is written in stone.....like a law of nature...oh well at least youre not paying for the village's last water buffalo
>>62825726>I'm playing the long game>>62825726>auntieHoly shit take it from an expert monger bro nullify the marriage or some shit dont let them do more damage to youYou gotta keep those hoes on a leash
sana all...as they say
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bQz-1KsAhw
>>62825726>we're planning to have the auntie around as much as possible in the future to help take care of the kid so we don't have to pay for a nanny which is super expensive here.You're probably going to have to pay for the auntie's entire lifestyle, though. And guaranteed she's going to be trying to raid your bank accounts for all she can.You don't say where "here" is, but if you're in the U.S., there are all sorts of problems related to helping relatives immigrate, like being on the hook to pay their expenses for ten years. Some guy I e-know through a webforum imported a rich Israeli wife, she dumped him, and now he's on the hook to pay her something like $30,000 per year for eight years after their divorce, because federal law says he has to. That's on top of any alimony a court might have given her. That type of payment applies to anyone you help to immigrate, in his case it was for the K-1 fiancee visa he brought her in on, but it applies to any sort of chain migration visa.
>>62828733getting married is fucking insane if ur a dude like there is literally no upside not one
>>62822785most boomers are retarded anon>father got offered 2 houses for 20k in the 70s, he refused>houses now worth 500k today>father made 5k+ a night in tips workin tables in casinos>invested nothing, blew it all>step mother has a mental episode, they increase rent 3x to help since she is out of work>father does HVAC from random company, they jew him 40% over average>father has pipes that clog, gets random company who charges him to replace a pipe from the house to the sewer, turned out that didnt need to happen, jews him 40% above aveage (plus concreting another walkway they destroyed to get to pipe)>step mother pulls out retirement, buys an SUV>bank offers father 50k to get a car, he does it>they now have 4 vehicles, barely go out>the agreed period of 3x rent is over, talk to them about it "I NEED MONEY" was the response and they didn't lower itReally, boomers are terrible. Multiple chances to just think ahead and they did absolutely not think ahead. Its okay tho, I will take care of them until ive hit my limit and dip. I am not about carrying people who shouldve had their shit together 40 years ago. Moral of the story?>Even with these unfortunate boomers I'm still OP as fuck